- Be open to the process. Mediation can be an effective way to resolve disputes and reach mutually acceptable agreements, but it requires a willingness to communicate and negotiate with your spouse.
- Focus on interests, not positions. In mediation, it can be helpful to focus on your underlying needs and interests, rather than getting stuck on specific positions. This can help you find creative solutions to your disputes.
- Come prepared. Before the mediation session, take some time to think about what you want to achieve and bring any relevant documents or information with you.
- Communicate openly and honestly. Be prepared to listen to your spouse's perspective and express your own needs and concerns in a respectful way.
- Be willing to compromise. In mediation, it is important to be willing to consider options that may not be exactly what you want, but that are reasonable and mutually acceptable.
- Keep an open mind. Be open to new ideas and be willing to consider options and viewpoints that you may not have thought of before.
- Be respectful of the mediator and the process. Mediators are neutral. Remember that the mediator is there to help you communicate and negotiate, not to take sides or make decisions for you.
- Seek legal advice if necessary. If you have questions about your legal rights or the legal implications of potential agreements, consider seeking the advice of a lawyer.
- Consider the long-term consequences of your decisions. In mediation, it is important to think about the long-term implications of your agreements and consider what is best for you and your family in the long run.
- Follow through on your agreements. If you reach agreements in mediation, it is important to follow through on your commitments and work together to make them a reality.
We hope these tips are helpful! Schedule a consultation with a mediator to learn more about the process and possibility of a more peaceful divorce.
